Question:
How do I cope with a quarrelsome husband?
Assalamu Alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh
Thank you for your question.
May Allah bless you in your marriage and family.
We suggest you identify the root causes for the quarrels, thereafter sit down with your husband to mutually address the issues. In many cases, taking anger management and or problem solving skills classes are very helpful. Couples counselling or family therapy is also a useful option to address the issues.
Patience, commitment to resolve the issues, practical steps to deal with the concerns along with prayers by both partners will In-sha Allah bring positive changes.
And Allah knows best.
Answered by Shaykh Yusuf Badat
Hadith of the Day Imam
Imam of the Islamic Foundation of Toronto and Director of Mathabah Institute
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